With a liking to vent, but just don’t know when.

With a liking to vent, but just don’t know when.

I believe all people in the world vent.
We just vent.

On all sorts of occasions.
Work day, Rest day, School day.

Due to all sorts of reasons.
Angered, Frustrated, Irritated, Disappointed.

Plenty times, i believe on a (most times on a rest day). When you start thinking about everything that has happened through all the days so far, and suddenly you get a kind of frustration. So, here it comes, the vent moment.

Well, there’s nothing wrong with venting. Everyone does it, its so common. But the key lies with how you do it. Remember to never make it look like its a vicious attack. That will not only make you end up having a worse state of mind, but even leave the recipient of such actions emotional trauma. 

None of us like to feel ‘damaged’.

So, be rational. Always.

Walk it away.
OR
Sit down somewhere, and away.

*Serve as a Reminder to self as well

Could had it been?

Ever got the feeling of “That could have been me”, “It should have been me”?

Scenario and situations like that, i refer them as a type of ‘Selections’ & ‘Choices’ made by people.  Most common scenarios include,

• a possible hinted job promotion
• only position left for a dream job or event
• ex getting married
• person winning lottery
• special or prestige courses that needs selection process
• the rest of a group passing an exam, and you’re the only one who failed

Well this morning, i encountered the same find of feeling. Happened once, Happened twice. It really sucked.

It set me on thinking. Have i changed? Perhaps to the worse? Or is it just not my ‘moment’?

I need to figure that out.

2011

1 day before the New Year’s Eve

My mom came along, and asked: “What’s the best thing[decision] you ever did?”
I went, “Er, hmmmmmm”. And before i could answer anything.
She continued and said: “Its that you finally got rid of ‘Him’”.